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Re: I've Made a Life Decision

Post by Snowth Poogle on Wed Sep 02, 2015 8:03 pm

I've actually seen an evidence of results for myself today: I went down a hole in my belt and didn't even realize it until later (mainly, because I got dressed in the dark and couldn't see what I was doing).

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Re: I've Made a Life Decision

Post by A Lotta Moms on Wed Sep 02, 2015 11:03 pm

The Slum-Fast diet works every time. Wink
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Re: I've Made a Life Decision

Post by Snowth Poogle on Wed Sep 02, 2015 11:12 pm

If only I had known all this time. pale

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Re: I've Made a Life Decision

Post by Snowth Poogle on Fri Dec 11, 2015 11:29 am

Okay, so apparently sometime back in August or September, she and that guy she was seeing had apparently broken up, so I spent the better part of like a month or so trying to reach out to her and connect to her, hoping this time I'd finally get my chance, but she was going through one of her little anti-social spells that she goes through from time to time. And wouldn't you know it, a month later, she hooked up with another guy again! That was totally not fair! She didn't even give me a chance to try to talk to her about how I feel about her! And as if that wasn't bad enough, yesterday I finally got to see what her current boyfriend looks like, and whaaaat? She went completely against type! She went with someone tall and strapping instead of going for a geek like herself . . . I can't believe she went for somebody like that . . . I can't believe somebody like that would go for a geek like her! To say this whole situation sucks is the biggest understatement of the year. I can't believe she's turned into a Taylor Swift.

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Re: I've Made a Life Decision

Post by A Lotta Moms on Fri Dec 11, 2015 2:59 pm

Aw, gosh...

I'm sorry to hear that things aren't going so well with this predicament, though I must commend you for your perseverance.  From what it sounds like, she's pretty much relegated you to the friend zone.  When deeper feelings are involved, that's not exactly the best place to be.  One suggestion is to come out and be direct with her about how you've felt all this time, to help bring closure to the situation.  It's possible that she may have not really known during her period of downtime before she decided to hook up with someone else, so she may not have considered the option at that point.  She may also be hesitant to enter into what would be a long-distance relationship, knowing that there are very real obstacles to making that situation work (although it's quite possible if you can make regular visits happen with lots phone calls and Skyping until a permanent arrangement can be worked out).  If I were in that situation and had stuck it out over the course of a few breakup cycles with no results, I'd come clean and discuss all of this with her to see how she feels, where she stands, and if the possibility of trying a relationship in the future would ever be an option.  In the worst case scenario, it will bring closure to the matter and allow you both to move on.  

Anyway, good to have you back. Smile
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Re: I've Made a Life Decision

Post by ArthurFrancineFan on Sat Dec 12, 2015 6:12 am

Indeed Kerry indeed
I don't know if someone going with a geek like her is a nice way to word it though...? Snowth
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Re: I've Made a Life Decision

Post by Snowth Poogle on Thu Dec 17, 2015 10:59 am

Well, she's a self-proclaimed geek, and proud of it, lol.

Anyway, sometime earlier this week, I had something of an epiphany, it may have even been Divine Intervention, I'm not sure . . . but, I came to realize that I'm actually more at fault in the situation than anything, because when I really think about it, I really could have done more to let my feelings be known: like Moms suggested, I could have been a bit more direct, but I certainly could have been a little more aggressive and assertive in trying to reach out and talk to her about things. It's just that that's not the kind of person I am, I've never been that way, I can't bring myself to assert myself in situations - it's just not in my nature. Like I said, all this time, I've been making small moves and taking things slowly, like trying to coax a little squirrel over to me, mainly because I didn't want to make any big, sudden moves, rock the boat, and ultimately make mistakes since this is such a big deal, and the only certainty is that, for better or worse, once I say something, things will never be the same again. But after two strikes this year alone, I realize now that perhaps "slow and steady wins the race" isn't the Aesop here after all, and that I really do need to fight for what I want. So I guess, at this point, all I can do is wait and see how this one pans out (I'm iffy, though - things seem to be going better than the last guy she was with back in the summer), and if it doesn't work out, then I can't afford to beat around the bush any longer, and not wait for an opportunity to present itself, but grab an opportunity myself and make things happen. I just hope I can find the right words to say.

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Re: I've Made a Life Decision

Post by A Lotta Moms on Sat Dec 19, 2015 6:00 pm

Good plan of action.  You know we'll be here cheering you on from the sidelines!  If worst comes to worst, hey...at least you'll have a fresh apricot smoothie waiting here for you. Wink

I've found that when it comes to disclosing feelings, it's best to just be as honest and as natural as possible.  I really don't think there are any magic words when it comes to this sort of thing.  Anything like that just tends to come off as strange and forced.  Like pretty much anything regarding relationships, being yourself is what counts.
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Re: I've Made a Life Decision

Post by Snowth Poogle on Mon Oct 17, 2016 1:54 pm

Well, after spending a three month period wearing myself out on a treadmill for up to an hour almost everyday . . . I somehow gained twenty pounds, and am now the biggest and heaviest I've ever been in my life!

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Re: I've Made a Life Decision

Post by ZeGermanArthurFan on Mon Oct 17, 2016 2:23 pm

Well, that's life...it has its ups and downs...
(That sentence felt so paper-thin I feel like I yelled for quiet at a techno rave party...)
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Re: I've Made a Life Decision

Post by A Lotta Moms on Wed Oct 26, 2016 7:19 pm

Damn.  Given that you're doing everything that would normally be associated with weight loss, it's possible it could be some underlying medical factor such as a thyroid issue.  It might be worth discussing with your doctor, since proper medications can really do the trick if that turns out to be the case.
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Re: I've Made a Life Decision

Post by Francine Frensky on Fri Oct 28, 2016 3:11 pm

Forget the stupid treadmill.  Soccer's where it's at!
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Re: I've Made a Life Decision

Post by Kerry9Story on Sat Oct 29, 2016 3:46 pm

well DFB bro my fatass round 230 now an know what? IDGAF. been tryin stop eaten or eat fucken shitass taste $alads@work an ier aint do shit or im like lose few lbs. then get em back then more. Crying or Very sad so fuck it. imma eat i get hungies. some p33ps all prollem cause we all fat an shit then fuck em.
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Re: I've Made a Life Decision

Post by Alan "The Brain" Powers on Sun Oct 30, 2016 7:43 am

If more people lived healthy, active lifestyles like Francine and I, the obesity epidemic might not have happened. You can't eat burgers and fries every single day like "Kerry9Story" and not expect negative repercussions. She is going to develop high levels of LDL or "bad" cholesterol and be at risk for heart disease, stroke, et cetera.
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Re: I've Made a Life Decision

Post by Kerry9Story on Sun Oct 30, 2016 2:37 pm

look@ur own fatass u fucken fatass.
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Re: I've Made a Life Decision

Post by ZeGermanArthurFan on Sun Oct 30, 2016 2:43 pm

Don't mind all the strange languages, Brain - just give it a few weeks and you'll see how you fit in.
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Re: I've Made a Life Decision

Post by CMSAB11 on Sun Oct 30, 2016 3:39 pm

Alan "The Brain" Powers wrote:If more people lived healthy, active lifestyles like Francine and I, the obesity epidemic might not have happened. You can't eat burgers and fries every single day like "Kerry9Story" and not expect negative repercussions. She is going to develop high levels of LDL or "bad" cholesterol and be at risk for heart disease, stroke, et cetera.

Funny you say that when you're so chubby


look it's not a bad thing, i happen to think chubby characters are fucking adorable, look at bustar

of course, at the same time he's 10x more adorable than you because you're kind of ugly lol!
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Re: I've Made a Life Decision

Post by ZeGermanArthurFan on Sun Oct 30, 2016 4:41 pm

Don't take it personally, Brain. I suggest until you've found your place on the site, stick with us "normals" (Me, A Lotta Moms, Snowth Poogle. CMSAB11 and a few others)
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Re: I've Made a Life Decision

Post by A Lotta Moms on Sun Oct 30, 2016 5:52 pm

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Re: I've Made a Life Decision

Post by Kerry9Story on Wed Nov 02, 2016 6:03 am

ZeGermanArthurFan wrote:Don't take it personally, Brain. I suggest until you've found your place on the site, stick with us "normals" (Me, A Lotta Moms, Snowth Poogle. CMSAB11 and a few others)
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Re: I've Made a Life Decision

Post by Francine Frensky on Sun Nov 06, 2016 2:53 pm

*AHEM*  

Forget someone else there, buddy?
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Re: I've Made a Life Decision

Post by ZeGermanArthurFan on Sun Nov 06, 2016 4:38 pm

Right, right.

I dunno about Kerry...she, well...how shall I put it?
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Re: I've Made a Life Decision

Post by A Lotta Moms on Sun Nov 06, 2016 4:45 pm

Kerry is just a very special sort of person.
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Re: I've Made a Life Decision

Post by fudgy brown sludge on Sun Nov 06, 2016 6:10 pm

A Lotta Moms wrote:Kerry is just a very special sort of person.
and at a discount price.
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Re: I've Made a Life Decision

Post by CMSAB11 on Tue Nov 08, 2016 9:06 am


well there's supposed to be an e instead of an a...but...you get the point
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